About You

I get what I want, when I want.

I do what I want, when I want.

You do what I say, when I say.

Can’t accept that you will have to spoil my black butt?

Feel free to seek ownership elsewhere!

You will beg to be of use to me.

You are expected to come running at the snap of my finger.

To complete tasks without the raising of my hand…or of my voice.

You will crawl to be used to my satisfaction.

And you will always treat it as the honor that it is.

I expect the best and if you are a “loser” or a “worm”, it is because I gave you the owner of designating you so.

Paywalling my life

There are so, so many reasons why I have decided to paywall my life starting in 2019 but the major reason is because I said so.

It’s what I want.

It’s what I need.

It proves your dedication and intention to serve me on my terms.

How many different ways can I tell you that this relationship revolves around me.

Obey or don’t obey.

It is the difference between serving and not serving.

So I am officially announcing that in order to serve me, you will have to be a subscriber to my OnlyFans.

It is not that expensive and if you can’t afford it, we are not a match anyway.

Yes, this includes both online and offline service offerings.

And, no, you are not the special snowflake to which this rule does not apply.

So, go to my OnlyFans and subscribe today.

It is the very first step in proving that you want to be owned by the one and only AfroQueen.

~Snap. Snap. Boy~


Formal Protocol

I love, Love, LOVE formal protocol.

I swoon when watching shows like Reign, The Tudors, or GoT where the are formal and proper and know their place.

I even like when they “kneel to Zod” on Smallville. Lol.

I think it would be super sexy (although not required) to be served by a white gloved, black suited butler.

Heck, even a nice suit may suffice!

Female Led Relationship

Female Led Relationship.

That is how all of this will begin with us.

If you are looking for someone who will practice D/s or BDSM on you straight out of the gate, you have found the wrong person.

By starting with a FLR, we start of by establishing that I am the lead but we have to establish the relationship before we establish anything else.

Starting with an FLR forces you to acknowledge that  I am a human being and not the answer to your porn fueled fetish fantasies.

There are many websites that explain to you what it means to be in an FLR.

If you have a Fetlife account, there are even groups dedicated to discussing FLR.

Keep in mind that FLR’s come in many styles so if you question if that is what I want, then be sure to ask me.

The simplest way for me to describe how I view an FLR is for you think of a vanilla relationship where you just knew that the woman was in charge.

Black Supremacy

Black Supremacy is one of those fetishes that pop up frequently.

I never knew there was so many small dicked white boys in the world. Lol.

What is interesting is their fascination with bbc.

Seriously, they contact a Black Queen to tell them all about how they love the BBC.

Um, so, what am I, chop liver.

Background to your BBC fantasy?

Anywho, I digress.

My opinion on black supremacy is that I don’t believe in it.

I know too many black people who are definitely not superior to anyone.

The only supremacy that I remotely care about is MY OWN.

It just so happens that I happen to be a Black Female.

Being a Black Female is not how I define my domination style.

There are many, many a black female that engages in the black supremacy lifestyle.

Alas, I am not one of them.


You must be either local to me or have the ability to relocate.

I am in the 757 Virginia area but I plan to move some day soon.

Or, at the very least, find a place to run before the snow hits every winter.

(I hate snow. A tidbit that you learned about me. You’re welcome. Lol.)

For some reason, a lot of boys have started contacting me from Pennsylvania and they are unable to relocate.

No thanks!

Way to cold for me.


Sorry, not sorry, but I am not particularly interested in sissification, especially boys who find it humiliating to be turned into a woman.

I get a lot of messages for this and it is actually a real turn-off for me.

Financial Domination

Financial domination appears to be a stumbling block for many boys who approach me to seek ownership.

So, I thought that I would give you my thoughts on the subject.

For me, adding financial domination to my female domination is like adding strawberries to my cheesecake.

Domination without the financial aspect is just “eh”. Edible. Ok. But not what I really desire. Not something that I actually crave.

But add on those strawberries and it instantly transforms to “MMMMMmmmmmm”.

(By the way, strawberry cheesecake is my favorite dessert. Something for you to keep in mind. Lol.)

Second, financial domination for me is not about amount, it is about dedication and obedience.

Now, would I love to find myself a well off slave to own. Yes. Heck, YES!!

But, as long as you can cover the bills with a bit extra for fun then you are eligible to apply.

Sorry, not sorry, but I am not interested in boys living with their parents because they can’t survive financially on their own nor boys surviving on welfare.

I already lived the struggle life and I have zero interests in doing that again.

Also, if you are not local to me or able to relocate to me, then your only use to me is to provide for me financially.

You can’t clean my house.

You can’t cook me dinner.

And I have zero interest in watching you flounce around on webcam with zero actual benefit to me.

There may be women out there willing to do that with you but, trust and believe, I am NOT the one.

About Me


“Elegantly narcissistic.”

You have found the website of the one and only AfroQueen.

Welcome to my Queendom, subby.

I have gone by many, many names since entering the fetish lifestyle but AfroQueen suits me best (although I still maintain the names Shaddai and LillithEve on a few sites).

If you’re not sure that it is really me, come back and contact me here.

About Me

“Sweet but will definitely put you in your place.”

I am a natural lifestyle female dominant.

(I don’t do roleplay. Don’t ask.)

This webpage is dedicated to my want to live a purely hedonistic lifestyle of real life people ownership.

I wear my hair natural and little to no makeup.

My wardrobe is usually just jeans and tshirts.

(Not fetish wear. Not lingerie. No heels.)

I am introverted and quiet but not necessarily shy and in a space where I feel comfortable, I can be quite flirty and boisterous.

I am quietly confident, I know that I am beautiful, inside and out.

And I revel in unequal relationships!

To learn what I seek in a submissive, click here for my About You page.